Divorce provides fertile ground for elder law issues, not at the time of divorce, but later. Years after the divorce, a second marriage may occur. Decades after that, one spouse or the other staggers under the weight of dementia or Parkinson’s or other chronic health issues.
The Full Faith and Credit Clause of the US Constitution guarantees that a judicial proceeding administered in one state shall be honored by another state. In the world of guardianship and conservatorship, it’s more complicated than that.
If you spent thousands of dollars on an estate plan in California, do you have to spend thousands more to update it now that you moved to Oregon? Not necessarily.
The door opened and Nicu welcomed me in. How are you, boss? he said in a thick Romanian accent, before turning and leading me down the hall to the common room. I smelled bleach-laden disinfectant and air freshener and Nicu’s cologne and my eyes watered.
My dad needs your help.
What do you mean?
I mean he has this girlfriend and she’s cut him off from us.
Who’s us?
My sister. My wife. My kids. Me.
Why didn’t you see him when he was in the hospital?
The hospital?
Dawn Simpson is on the line for you.
Who?
Dawn Simpson. She says you did estate planning work for her friend, Bob Kirk.
Her friend?
That’s what she said.
OK. I picked up the phone. Hello. This is Tim.
Mom’s birthday is August 13, and this year that date got me thinking again about moms in my work and how they demonstrate the tireless devotion that my mom poured into my brothers and me.
We walked toward downtown on the Hawthorne Bridge, my three adult kids, my son-in-law, and my grandson in a stroller, and I.
Some of my clients don’t have to imagine this nightmare scenario because they lived it: Adult daughter, mentally ill and homeless, was picked up by police and eventually admitted to a psychiatric unit of a local hospital.
